Given the state of the economy, it's not surprising that Americans are looking for shopping tips. This isn't new for those for whom money has always been tight, and neither is it new for many Jesus-followers. Some of the Christian families I know are expert bargain-buyers, in fact: Wal-mart, TJ Maxx, Aldi, tax holidays, semi-annual sales, and cooking at home are a way of life. I didn't grow up in this culture, but I was socialized into an upper-middle class adaptation. Today, most of my friends looking to save money are trying to either 1) survive during/post-college or 2) live on less to give more.
Today I want to take issue with the latter goal.
Many of us have thought for so long that we need to pursue simpler lifestyles by buying fewer things, therefore spending less money. Those savings can be reinvested in churches and ministries, other non-profits, electing candidates that will maintain justice (at least better than their opponents), giving food to homeless people-- whatever. And I'm not proposing we stop doing that.
I do think, however, than much of our cheap shopping can be as destructive as it is generous. While we save a thousand dollars to give to the poor, we spend thousands to pay greedy CEOs, only to have pennies returned to the women and men who sewed those Payless shoes or exposed themselves to toxic chemicals for the well-being of our brightly colored vegetables. What good is our thousand dollar gift to those exploited by the businesses we support?
So I spend more money. On organic vegetables. On a fair-trade computer case made from recycled plastic bags that once littered streets in India. On 90% post-consumer product toilet paper. I try to tip well (right or not, I also practice a pretty arbitrary form a affirmative action in my tipping based on who my heart goes out to that day), and I boycott Wal-mart. Put with my refusal to consider Ramen a meal, these choices place me far from claiming the cheapest lifestyle. But I don't think cheap necessarily means just. Sometimes we are called to spend more money on the same amount of stuff that we could buy for a cheaper price.
There are a lot of things I haven't figured out:
*How do I afford to have a conscience when I'm on a tight budget?
*What should we encourage the poor do? If the market response to increasing demands for just products, will they be left with even fewer options?
*Should I consider extra money I spend as "giving" if it's doing more good than simply saving might? Why do we feel our money must clearly fit only one box, anyway?
*How do we hold our wants in check and steer away from any kind of selfish "spending more will help more and more trickle down!" mentality just because we're buying justly?
And, importantly: Why, if I'm buying something I need and something ethically responsible, do I still sometimes feel guilty for spending more money?
For the present, I don't count that extra $30 as giving, but I don't always reach 10%. I don't display consistency, depending on how recently I've been paid. I don't know if I'm a fool who should wait until I have a "real job" to spend intentionally. For that matter, I don't even know all the time if I'm truly concerned for justice or merely turning into one of those elitist liberals that think they're hip because they spend lots of money on trendy political statements.
But these ideas and questions have been tossing themselves around in my head for the past couple years. How do we love our neighbor through shopping?
7.30.2008
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Great post my blogger friend. I have also wrestled with this too, including the trendy part of it all. I have thought about how I don't want to shop at Wal Mart, but sometimes thankful that it's there so lower income families can buy what they need, but how Wal Mart can keep families in a lower income bracket because of their practices. It's dizzying. I have heard that practice of buying fair trade items compared to the woman who poured expensive perfume on Jesus' head. The disciples said that perfume could have been sold and given to the poor, but Jesus says that she has done a beautiful thing.
Part of what I struggle with is my addiction to new things, and how society says that will make me happy so then I think if I buy fair trade new stuff I will be happy. I need to learn how to be happy with the things that I have and only buy what I need. Harder said than done.
I also have lots of questions and just things I think about.
*Should what we give be a percentage of our income or should we live on what we always do, and when we get raises, give the difference away?
*Does "winning my friends into the kingdom with generosity" count as tithing and does it really matter?
*Maybe I should spend less time thinking about where my money should goes and just spend more time with the poor, then maybe God would speak to me more about where it should go.
One of the things I find the most difficult is that when I buy local (like produce for example) I'm not supporting the farmer in Latin America buy giving them a fair wage, I am simply choosing not to support the company that is not paying them enough. It's so structural that I sometimes feel hopeless in the small things and I feel like I need to be more pro-active rather than just choosing not to participate in it.
Also, a shameless plug for a store, dignityregained.org sells items that are both fair trade, environmentally sound, and support efforts to free women and children from sex trafficking. It's also my sister's store.
Another side-note, I'm glad to hear you're still coming to Pasadena!
you're admirable, Ashleigh
just make sure you do buy the 90% post-consumer product TOILET PAPER, not paper towels ;)
I think you make a number of insightful comments and hard questions. I like that you point out that spending less money doesn't necessarily equate to using our resources justly.
I struggle as well with the reality that I've been raised in a culture where so much of my lifestyle negatively impacts local and/or global neighbors.
Definitely don't have the answers, but I think that there is grace to struggle well and to continue stepping out in allocating the resources God has given us in ways that are counter cultural and/or challenging to our understanding of what we need and want.
You GO Ashleigh!
Margot's comment brought it to my attention that I never replied to ANY of you, so I just wanted to say that I really appreciated your thoughts!
We're all in a similar place, just trying to figure out what this looks like... I guess that's why faith has to be worked out in community!
Nyam, a follow-up question for you specifically--do you think your parents' immigrant background adds to your concern about this issue? One of the things that bothers me the most is to see people exploiting their own people (whether that's a an issue of nationality, class, ethnicity, or gender! Sexist women are some of the worst...), so I wondered how that played into the particular tensions you deal with regarding this issue.
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